Your relationship disappeared like boiling water. All you want is to catch all that particles and put them together again. Seems a crazy comparison but it’s the truth: you can’t get your relationship together again. All that’s left is to deal with it: all the pain, the anger, the sadness, and all the material things left behind by your ex. Breakups are a long and tedious process that you have to go through in order to get over someone. You are in pain, and it can make your mind blurry towards other things in your life. Sometimes a break up can take so long that you begin to wonder if anything is happening or if you ever will get over your ex. To clarify those feelings, here at “Loser Or Lover” We will give you have some tips to help you to not get in a vicious circle of thinking about your ex, do what you have to do for the day and go to sleep.