Getting your woman to reach climax can be a challenge. As you may be aware, not all of them can have an orgasm during sex so there are some things you should know to make her have an orgasm. Of course, there are a lot of things you can do during sex to help her get there like talking dirty. But if your jaw is already getting sore from being “down there” and your penis is craving for her here are some positions that will help her reach a climax:
This one is perfect for women to stimulate the clitoris without losing momentum. It is perfect to achieve their needs. As Dr. Susan Block, sex therapist says “Rather than laying there wondering when he’s going to thrust in perfect time with your erotic needs, you can set the rhythm and take him in as deep or as shallow as you like.”
For you, it’s the perfect way to relax while she does all the work. You have a gorgeous view of her body; you can play with her boobs or reach her behind to squeeze or spank it.
The sticky scissor
“Lay perpendicular to each other with you on your back and him facing you on his side. One of your legs goes between him, and the other is draped over his hips. This allows his top leg to be angled so it’s pressed against your vulva while he’s inside you,” says Trisha Borowicz, orgasm equality blogger and director of Science Sex and the Ladies. “While he’s slowly pumping, you can grind up against his inner thigh to get the clit stimulation you [woman] need to come.”
The up and over
This one is a modified missionary position. She lays down on her back with a pillow under her butt with her knees brought to her shoulders. This will allow you to have better thrusts and deeper penetration. But it is only a warm-up. When she feels things going, she should put her legs down, and you have to put yourself into coital-alignment-technique.
Sex therapist Gloria Brame, PhD says to women: “He’s on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris. Then he rocks against the area until you peak. The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity.”
She lays down on her belly with her legs together. Then, make her lift her but a little bit so you can enter her. Feel the friction and watch the effect appear.
This position is very intimate, since to are both sitting down with her on top facing each other. Her clitoris will be rubbing on you and if not either one of you is free to give her a hand in time of need. Plus, you can play with her nipples. Multiple stimulations will quickly bring her to the edge.
This one is the best for clitoral stimulation. With you on top, move against her, so her clitoris gets all the action it needs.
For insane clitoral stimulation go for the lotus flower. You are both with the legs around each other, so everything is rubbing on something. For extra connection, change up your movements. She will be moaning and groaning in no time.
Yes, women are complicated, but they are not an impossible puzzle to solve. You can make her have an orgasm easily just by asking her what she wants. If she doesn’t know, try using some outside of the room technique to make her have an orgasm. The positions here described, are the best for clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Of course, not all women like all the positions but if your partner is not sure, you need to go at it by trial an error. Find the best position for her that checks all the boxes and see her go wild.